March 4, 2008

COVER STORY
The Realness of Loss
by The Rev. Alvin C. Johnson, Jr.

Dear Pilgrims,

First of all, thank you for your feedback and questions about last week's article about life, death and faith. Your comments mean more to me than you can imagine as you are integral to the pilgrimage of my life as well. We are a community and we are in this together. My question becomes your answer and your questions become my answers. That's how we grow in the Lord together.

As I reflected on the comments from several of you regarding the journal entry I shared, I realized that there was an extremely important factor that I left out of the article that has a tremendous impact on how one looks at the truth that all relationships come to an end. That factor is that all relationships come to an end in the flesh. One person wrote and asked me if I think about Nicholas and my Dad still; do I think of them as members of our family? My answer is yes. At the same time, they also are not here in the flesh to visit, to talk with, to fret over and more. The loss of "in the flesh" is a real loss; measurable and painful. This loss is the essence of the human grief we experience when a loved one dies. Certainly Nicholas and my Dad live on in my heart, in the hearts of many others, in our family and within the heart of God as well. The loss of their presence in the flesh is real and it's this reality that was behind my thoughts that all relationships come to an end.

Jesus once said that he came that we may have life and have life abundantly. We value those things we are given because we also know that they can be taken away. To me, this is just a simple truth about life and love. Jesus also desired that we come to see the beauty of life today not just the promises of tomorrow; and that we find in the beauty of our lives today, the inherent hope that informs our views of the life to come. Look outside at the snow. Underneath that snow rests the real hope of spring. But for now, we see snow.

Love and Blessings,

Alvin, a pilgrim

WORSHIP
Prepare Ye!
by The Rev. Martha Gillette

Easter is early this year, so by the time you read this, it will be time to pull out your day-planners and block off the times of our Holy Week services.

The services of Holy Week do send us on an emotional roller coaster, but together they provide a spiritual experience of unsurpassed depth, richness, complexity, and beauty, and give us an insight into our Christian heritage and calling which is impossible to obtain by attending Sunday services alone. This year, between the partner parishes of St. Michael’s and Church of the Holy Apostles, there are a variety of opportunities for worship from which you may choose.

Palm Sunday (March 16) services take us from the jubilation of Jesus’ triumphant entry into Jerusalem, accompanied by the waving of palm branches and shouts of “Hosanna!” to his Passion and death. Each of our services will start with the Liturgy of the Palms, and a procession into our worship space. Holy Apostles’ services on this day are both Rite I without music, at 8:00 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. St. Michael’s services are Rite I at 7:45 a.m., and Rite II at 9:00 a.m. and 10:30 a.m.

Maundy Thursday (March 20) commemorates the institution of the Eucharist (Jesus’ last supper as related in Matthew, Mark, and Luke) and the Christian principle of servant-hood as evidenced in Jesus’ washing of his disciples’ feet (the story of Jesus’ last supper as related in John). It includes the powerful ritual of stripping the altar. At Holy Apostles, the service begins at 6:30 p.m. with a simple meal. The foot washing and the Eucharist will take place in the context of this supper, after which participants will silently proceed to the church for the stripping of the altar. At St. Michael’s, a traditional liturgy will begin at 7:30 p.m. and will include Eucharist (with incense) and the stripping of the altar. If you wish to participate in the foot washing at St. Michael’s, please sign up on the sheets posted in the narthex/main entrance.

The Watch at the Altar of Repose (March 20-21). When he went to pray at Gethsemane, Jesus asked his disciples to watch and pray with him; but they fell asleep, leaving him alone in his hour of profound need. The Watch is not a service, but rather an act of personal piety, during which one can, indeed, “stay awake” for an hour with Jesus in prayer and contemplation. At both Holy Apostles and St. Michael’s, the Watch runs continually from the end of the Maundy Thursday service to the morning of Good Friday, and sign-up sheets are posted. Anyone is welcome to pray in either place at any time. You are welcome to call the respective church office to leave a message asking for your name to be listed on the sign-up sheet (perhaps a good idea if you are interested in an “overnight” hour), or to simply show up to pray. Holy Apostles office number is 847-526-7148, St. Michael’s number is 847-381-2323.

Good Friday (March 21) focuses on Jesus’ crucifixion. The service at Holy Apostles begins at 7:00 p.m. and will be in the style of Taizé. It will be a service featuring readings, simple chants, and contemplative silence, in a candlelit environment. There will be no communion. At St. Michael’s there will be a 10:00 a.m. “young person’s” service and a traditional liturgy at 7:30 p.m. These services will include a reading of the Passion of Christ and the Solemn Collects, and provide an opportunity for the Veneration of the Cross. Communion from Reserved Sacrament will be offered.

The Great Vigil might be thought of as “the” Easter service, as it is the first service at which the Easter Eucharist is celebrated. The Great Vigil has four parts: The Service of Light (during which the Paschal candle is lighted from an outside fire and the ancient Exsultet is said or sung); The Service of Lessons (during which a series of readings highlighting the story of God’s people from the Creation on is read); The Sacrament of Baptism, or the Renewal of Baptismal Vows; and the Holy Eucharist. Yes, it is longer than the average service – but it is a wonderful service that moves from the darkness of the tomb to the glorious resurrection. At Holy Apostles, the service begins at 7:00 p.m. A reception follows the service. At St. Michael’s, the service begins at 8:00 p.m. and includes incense; a festive reception follows.

Easter Sunday requires no introduction, I am sure. At Holy Apostles, there is a single service at 9:00 a.m., followed by a festive brunch. At St. Michael’s, service times are modified slightly, to 7:45 a.m., 9:00 a.m., and 11:00 a.m. Incense will be used at 11:00 only. A festive reception follows each service.

Daylight Saving Time Returns this Sunday!

This Sunday, March 9, is time to return to Daylight Saving Time. Don't be late for church…remember to set your clocks ahead one hour on Saturday night!

Welcome to St. Michael's New Sunday Sexton

In order to support the needs of the parish on Sunday mornings — the busiest day of the week at St. Michael's — the vestry approved the addition of a Sunday Sexton (maintenance) position with the 2008 budget at their January meeting and is pleased to announce that Kevin Callahan has accepted the position and began working on Sunday, February 24. Kevin will also assist around the church with miscellaneous maintenance projects during the week of Wednesday. Please welcome Kevin into his role when you see him on Sunday morning.

Easter Flower Offerings

Remember a loved one or offer thanksgiving through your offering of Altar flowers this Easter. Offering envelopes are available in the narthex/front entrance and must be received no later than 5:00 p.m. on Monday, March 17 to be included in the printed bulletin.

Help Wanted for Easter Receptions

Marti Callahan is asking for your help with this year's Easter reception. If you are interested in being a part of this festive event, please sign up on the sheet in the kitchen to let her know of your interest.

What's needed??

  • 2 people to help refresh and clean up after the 7:45 a.m. and 9:00 a.m. services.
  • 3-4 people to stay and clean up after the 11:00 a.m. service.
  • 8-10 people to make 2 dozen deviled eggs each (trays are available in the kitchen)
  • 10-12 people to bring two or more trays of finger foods to the service they attend
  • 1 person to help Saturday morning setting up the tables, paper goods, decorations, etc.

The Little Red Wagon: Lent 2008

During the month of March, the St. Cyprian Food Pantry will receive offerings made to the Little Red Wagon. St. Michael's has been supporting this food pantry for many years. Its needs are even greater now — not just because of the growing number of clients, but because of the great drop in food available from its main support agencies, The Greater Chicago Food Depository and the Chicago Anti-Hunger Federation.

During Lent, please remember those struggling to survive each day. Their needs are many and money is limited. Providing food is essential and something we can all do. Please consider the following suggested items when you're shopping during the month of March:

  • March 9 - Extras: Salad dressings, salsa, pasta sauce
  • March 16 - Desserts: Snacks, crackers
  • All Weeks - $10 gift certificates from Jewel are also helpful as they are provided to families to allow them to purchase fresh meats

From the Parish Office

Updated Parish Directories

A small number of updated Parish Directories have been printed and are available in the Parish Office reception area. A sign-up sheet is also available to order additional directories.

Around the Neighborhood

Grace Church to Host Benefit for Sudan

Grace Church, Oak Park, is hosting a silent auction that will benefit the people of the Renk Diocese in Sudan. The auction will take place this Sunday, March 9 from 9:00 a.m. until 12:00 p.m. The church is seeking donations to be offered for this event. To make a donation of goods or services, contact Susan Hickey at 708-387-2370 or email her at zuzka48@aol.com. Grace Church is located at 924 Lake Street, Oak Park 60301.

In the Parish Family

First/Solemn Communion

Congratulations to the hard work of the following young people who recently celebrated their Solemn or First Communion on Saturday, February 23: Josie Trautwein, Kyle Laughlin (First Communion), Kyle Anetsberger, Drew Douglas, Maesyn Poidomani, Eric Brown, Alma Brooks, Michael LaBarge, Andie Evans (also Baptised!), Stephanie Olds, and Matthew Cooper

Those for whom prayers have been requested

Military troops in danger, John, Mary, Margo, Kevin & Marti, Ray, Shirley & Bob, Mary Beth, Chad, Evelyn, Gayle, Ormonde, Tony & Kathy, Jane, Mike, Charlene & R.P., Claire, Dick, the Galasso family, the Locher family, Bob, Josh, Hilary, Dave, Lhee, Nancy, Jim & Sharon

Anniversaries This Week

Birthdays

  • 3.8 Katie Tomczyk, Jean Louis Lafon
  • 3.9 Reed Conway, Nathan Smith, Graham Erbs, Madeleine Belden
  • 3.10 Kyle Ferry, Jennifer Tilly, Anne McIntosh, Andrew Gier, David Raufeisen, Marjorie Brown, Susan Beuttas
  • 3.11 Steve Barnum, Stephen Walcott, Andrew Erbs, Douglas Knox, Eleanor McDonnell, Tom Kenrich, Cassie Bacher
  • 3.12 Stephanie Rieke, Nicholas Marcinkiewicz, Lisa Korzun
  • 3.13 Annilee Quinlan, William Baar, III, Aidin J. Donohue, Robert Gier
  • 3.14 Amy Briedenbach, Deanna Reeves

Anniversaries

  • 3.8 Laura & Craig McCammack
  • 3.12 Amy & Tom Kenrich

Deaths

  • 3.13 Norton Penney, Patrick Kane
  • 3.14 Edna Fox

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The Rev. Alvin C. Johnson, Jr., Rector
| John Yerger, Sr. Warden | Rich Padula, Jr. Warden
Irene Brown | Kirk Chan | James Parr | Sally Smith | Chuck Boetsch | Colin Nance
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